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The Power of Relational Leadership emotional intelligence leadership style Sep 18, 2024

I leave for a two-week trip to England in a few hours. As I prepare for my trip, I’m reminded of the incredible value of relationships. Why? because I am going to visit my long-time client whom I have not seen for many years.

Martin and I worked together for close to a decade. Though...

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Leadership Presence: Be Authentic and Own the Room (or Stage ) authenticity emotional intelligence leadership style Sep 11, 2024

After watching last night’s presidential debate, I reflected on the often elusive concept of leadership presence. It’s a term frequently described in phrases like “looking presidential,” “owning the stage,” or “commanding attention.” Leadership...

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How to Prevent Anxiety from Derailing Your Leadership emotional intelligence Sep 05, 2024

 

As a leader, a strong desire to make an impact on the people and organizations I serve drives me. For the most part, I've been able to align my actions with this motivation. However, I also struggle with generalized anxiety, a condition that extends far beyond the occasional worry that...

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Find Joy in Your Work Now! emotional intelligence Aug 27, 2024

 

 

Have you noticed all the references to joy and joyfulness lately? It seems to me that joy references are popping up daily in the news. And why not? Wouldn't we all like a little joy in our lives? I, for one, have decided to find It. 

I have...

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Psychological Safety: How to Create It For Yourself authenticity emotional intelligence Aug 02, 2024

At this point in my life and career, I mostly feel confident and clear about my leadership and what I aim to accomplish. But it wasn't always this way. There was a time when I felt vulnerable and uneasy in my role. I doubted my knowledge and capabilities and felt psychologically unsafe.

I...

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Distracted by Noise? Give In! emotional intelligence Jul 15, 2024

Recently, I’ve been having trouble focusing on my work. I attribute this persistent state of distraction to the constant noise around me: the appalling political news, the disasters cropping up around the world due to climate change, and the difficulty of the games I play daily in The ...

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How to Keep Your Focus on What Matters Most: Develop a Mission Statement emotional intelligence Jul 01, 2024

I am naturally curious and passionate about learning and exploring new endeavors. However, earlier in my career, I often jumped from one opportunity to another. My priorities shifted frequently, and my attention span was limited. It was as if I were a squirrel in a park full of acorns, darting...

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How to Halt Negative Self-Talk: Recall a Simple Yet Powerful Phrase emotional intelligence May 30, 2024

Ah, spring! I love this season. I'm always so nostalgic in the spring and summer, recalling the ice cream socials my small community held on the church lawn and the strawberry rhubarb pie my grandmother and aunts prepared each spring. We had an abundance of rhubarb in our family garden, and it...

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Let's Talk about Time emotional intelligence May 22, 2024

Time is a curious phenomenon, almost like a character in the story of our lives, changing roles as we grow. My relationship with time is continuously transforming, as I face various phases of my life and career.  Time has morphed from a barrier in my youth to a precious...

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Professional Transformation Among The Peonies emotional intelligence May 02, 2024

Who could have foreseen that the aftermath of a challenging year would lead me to the profound transformation brought about by peonies? Every Spring, a bed of these flowers in the community garden where I exchanged wedding vows becomes my sanctuary, my reset button. And this Spring, I found...

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Leadership Growth: When Our Defenses Hold Us Back emotional intelligence Apr 30, 2024

We all love a success story, especially our own. We draw strength from our achievements and pride from our skills. But while celebrating our wins, could we miss the hidden obstacles keeping us from reaching our full potential?

Understanding the Silent Blockers

Authentic leadership is more than...

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Three Ways to Boost Your Ability to Learn From Experience emotional intelligence Apr 27, 2024

Experience is the best teacher.  You have heard these words before, right? But the truth is, we don’t always learn from our encounters with life’s opportunities.

How often do we repeat the same errors or enjoy our wins without digging into the how and why? I'm right there with...

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