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Distracted by Noise? Give In! emotional intelligence Jul 15, 2024

Recently, I’ve been having trouble focusing on my work. I attribute this persistent state of distraction to the constant noise around me: the appalling political news, the disasters cropping up around the world due to climate change, and the difficulty of the games I play daily in The ...

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How to Keep Your Focus on What Matters Most: Develop a Mission Statement emotional intelligence Jul 01, 2024

I am naturally curious and passionate about learning and exploring new endeavors. However, earlier in my career, I often jumped from one opportunity to another. My priorities shifted frequently, and my attention span was limited. It was as if I were a squirrel in a park full of acorns, darting...

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Taking the Right Stand or Standing in the Right Place Jun 27, 2024

Here I am in New York State, vacationing for a week like I do every summer. The Chautauqua Institution, described as “a catalyst for creative exploration, educational growth, relaxation, and recreation,” once again provides me with a much-needed respite from day-to-day...

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Values at Work: Why They are Important and How to Create Alignment authenticity Jun 03, 2024

Think about what gets you out of bed and excited to go to work. If you are lucky enough to feel energized about your job, chances are your career aligns with your values.

I’m not referring to the generic and mostly ambiguous statements you add to your resumes or post on your office walls. I...

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How to Halt Negative Self-Talk: Recall a Simple Yet Powerful Phrase emotional intelligence May 30, 2024

Ah, spring! I love this season. I'm always so nostalgic in the spring and summer, recalling the ice cream socials my small community held on the church lawn and the strawberry rhubarb pie my grandmother and aunts prepared each spring. We had an abundance of rhubarb in our family garden, and it...

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Consider the Heroic Leader: Is Charisma the Mark of an Authentic Leader? leadership style May 24, 2024

Let me tell you about Jeremy (not his real name), the master of charisma and grand gestures. Jeremy was a senior-level leader in one of my client organizations. This guy was the epitome of charisma, always drawing attention to himself. Jeremy was known for wooing stakeholders and customers with...

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Let's Talk about Time emotional intelligence May 22, 2024

Time is a curious phenomenon, almost like a character in the story of our lives, changing roles as we grow. My relationship with time is continuously transforming, as I face various phases of my life and career.  Time has morphed from a barrier in my youth to a precious...

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Just Be Yourself: Unpacking the Meaning of Authenticity authenticity May 09, 2024

We are Always Evolving, So How Can We Be Authentic?

Authenticity is often discussed in conversations about self-identity and personal growth, but its meaning can be as elusive as appealing. What does it mean to be oneself? Many people grapple with this question, particularly as they encounter...

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Six Habits of Authentic Leaders authenticity May 06, 2024

I have been hearing a lot of talk about authentic leadership lately. And guess what? It seems like we don't all share the same definition.  

Authentic leadership seems to be one of those ambiguous concepts everyone discusses, as if we all agree on a precise definition. 

I teach a...

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Professional Transformation Among The Peonies emotional intelligence May 02, 2024

Who could have foreseen that the aftermath of a challenging year would lead me to the profound transformation brought about by peonies? Every Spring, a bed of these flowers in the community garden where I exchanged wedding vows becomes my sanctuary, my reset button. And this Spring, I found...

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Leadership Growth: When Our Defenses Hold Us Back emotional intelligence Apr 30, 2024

We all love a success story, especially our own. We draw strength from our achievements and pride from our skills. But while celebrating our wins, could we miss the hidden obstacles keeping us from reaching our full potential?

Understanding the Silent Blockers

Authentic leadership is more than...

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Three Ways to Boost Your Ability to Learn From Experience emotional intelligence Apr 27, 2024

Experience is the best teacher.  You have heard these words before, right? But the truth is, we don’t always learn from our encounters with life’s opportunities.

How often do we repeat the same errors or enjoy our wins without digging into the how and why? I'm right there with...

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